In Her Words: Phyllis Nagy

 

The legendary screenwriter of Carol and Call Jane calls us to find humor in everything and embrace “the other.”



Dear Sisters,

What can I tell you that you haven’t already learned the hard way, growing up female in this downward spiral of a culture?

Several things do occur –

1. Embrace “the other.” Art exists not as a comfortable affirmation, but as a challenge, a provocation. To do more, do better. Do BETTER.

2. If you don’t find everything funny – and I mean everything – you’ll end up in cultural despair.

3. The only quality of value to guard with your life: INTEGRITY. Never lie to yourself. If you do, it’s a living death. (i.e., see our new President [Donald Trump].)

4. Related to #5: only people with sense of humor survive and create great work. Cultivate your sense of humor.

5. When all else fails, DOODLE to relieve stress + sadness.

6. Listen to everyone. You can reject what is said, but refusing to hear is the height of narcissism.

Much love + courage to you –

Phyllis

P.S. – oh – and college-ruled notebooks are the best.

Humility – honor – integrity

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